Finding the right partner isn´t that easy, even when you do not expect much from your great love. I am talking about my life in this blog and how it sucks. Noone will listen to me thats for sure, in real life also noone does. But i think that when time has come that anyone reads this posts, you may want to know what my wishes are. What does this guy want and how could he ever be happy when complains even about small things like logical issues. Women are not perfect, men also are never perfect and also i have enough points to complain about, i think, but it´s not that hard to make me happy.
So i think i just post a couple of sentences about a perfect partner for me. Maybe you should not take this to serious, cause it´s really hard to met all conditions and when you do than you have a complete free selection of guys and i am not your choice, i know this, cause i once met a girl that fits my needs 110%. Yes, thats possible. I wouldn´t talk about this but there are things you wish you had but you will never expect from anyone cause it wouldn´t be fair or it would be a fetish or such things but see it as some of those sweet little secrets everyone keeps for him or herself. In my case there is one sweet little thing i will tell you, it´s not the only one, but i think it shows what i am talking about.
I like woman in skirts, i also like women wearing overknees. A combination of serious and sexyness i think. Of course this women must be able to wear such things, it must look good and it must fit to the type of person. I think this is one of the most important parts, everything must fit to type of person to make an attractive woman. It doesnt make sence when shes wearing overknees but in a size where you shouldn´t do this. Here we can take again my neighbour as a sample.
I already told you i would never start anything with here, thats a fact and that wouldn´t change but shes really good as an example. Shes a hughe woman, and i don´t mean fat, i mean huge, shes about 1,80 i would think. Shes not ugly but also not a 10 out of 10. She has a wider body, shes not one of those small, tiny, thin models, shes build stable, with a little bit of squish everywhere, huge breasts, i would say about an e cup. That doesnt matter at all but just to tell you how she looks and you can imagine of who we are talking.
I think this woman should not wear skirts or even high heels or such things. I do not think it´s pretty or sexy or anything else. Of course i wouldn´t tell her that cause i respect her wishes and if she thinks she could wear this it´s not up to me to blame her or such a thing. Don´t get me wrong i don´t want to hurt someones feelings or force them wearing, or looking, like the things i want, it´s her life not mine. She should do what makes her happy… unless i didn´t get my sleep cause of extremly loud prayers in the middle of the night when she again cries “…oh my god, deeper, deeper… thats so good…” but it´s nice to know that shes happy with her religion and that god penetrates her life so much…
But im getting away from the topic again. What i wanted to say is a bit hard to say in a language you are not really used to use, so maybe you will get me wrong now. I am sorry if this happens. I want to say that i like women when the body is proportional correct, like a girl that has too much weight like my wife and yes with more than 150 Kilogramms i wont say that shes not to fat, but her body is proportinal. For example, shes fat, ok, but she also has a f cup breast, so she doesn´t look strange in any way. It would be similar to, lets say a small, tiny, asian girl with a a cup and no ass, thats fine, it looks nice. Would this tiny little asian girl have a d cup or more, maybe a phat ass like it´s actually getting more and more trendy i think that looks strange. Also a girl with more kilogramms and less breasts. That doesn´t look attractive to me. What i want to say is that every women can be attractive for me, unless shes really strange looking. Another neighbour we have, for example, is about 1,30 meters and should weight around 100 kilogramms with tighs that would be enough for 3 other girls on each side, and guess… she loves to wear shorts and short skirts. A woman that makes you ill when you really need to watch this, and yes… shes one of these girls i would tell to get other clothes cause its really unestethic and ugly, breathtaking in a bad way… when your breakfast causes your breath to stop…
The Question is now, what should the perfect woman be like?
When it comes to the look i prefer natural woman. I don´t like these instagram style models, that all looks the same. I love it when woman wear skirts, i also love alternative styles that are not the same the mass is wearing, a little bit of goth style is really nice sometimes but it´s nothing a realtionship would depend on, but a good part to start a conversation with me, with the target to get me interested. Of course there are more ways to start my interest.
At this point i want to quote a movie, don´t know exactly which it was and if this quotation is completely correct but its about this: “… the perfect woman is the shy and intelligent librarian in public, the loving mom and housewife at home and a whore in the bedroom…” Sounds terrible? Yes i think so but thats more than correct. I was always attracted by the shy and the nondescript woman. Those that are standing in a corner at the party, in the class or at work, trying not to stand out. Guys for sure, admit that you all were attracted by michelle in american pie much more than any other girl in the movies 😉 or is it just me?
It´s a bit more important that a perfect partner has also a good personality. A sence of humor is so important. I can tell my wife any joke, show her funny videos but i never get a smile or make her laugh, when i want her to laugh i need to hurt myself, falling of a ladder or such things, than i have a chance that she would laugh, otherwise, about 80% of the times she would complain that i should not destroy the floor. thats not the way i wanted to live. I was not able to enjoy funny movies in the last 10 years only cause of her humor seems to be defect since our marriage.
The other thing is that a woman should be intelligent enough to follow easy smalltalk and to be at least on my level. She doesn´t need to know the same things, but she should be able not to ask a question and after the first half sentences of my answer, trying to change the topic cause 6 words were enough and she didn´t understand anything. I even have no problem when i am the dumb in the realtionship. When theres not much light from the candle there are enough ways to compensate this, like in bed. My ex was this type of girl, not intelligent, not verry hard-working in neither way but with her body she makes everything beeing fine… if it only would have been exclusively than i think i had marry her and not my wife but when every night-shift is used to test my bed with another guy, sorry thats way too much for me, therefore i am way to traditional.
A relationship is a thing between two partners i think. the ammount of people in a relationship should stay traditionally. OK i am a man, every man that says he wouldn´t let another woman in the bed is lying, believe me, every man who never had two woman at once will lie when he says hes not interested. I had a good friend that was a womanizer and had a couple of these. He told me it´s way not so good like you think, youre exhausted and in the end one person is disappointed everytime. So he found his way back to the normal relationships and married a girl, is now living a nice and quiet live i think, i hope so, haven´t heared much about him the past 10 years. But what i want to clarify is, that i wouldn´t say no when my girl would come home with her sexy girlfriend waiting in bed for me when i come home but thats not a thing i would ever expect, wish for or talk about, instead of here of course. I am a Man and i don´t wat to share my wife with other man and so i would never expect my wife sharing me with another woman, i wouldn´t even talk about such things with her unless she starts this topic, i wouldn´t even be disappointed if this would never happens in my life. I think that i can not expect things from anyone, i couldn´t live with but i won´t lie if asked.
So let´s make a short summary of what we have so far. The perfect partner looks esthetic. I like woman with good bodies, not too thin, wearing skirts, beeing more the quit ones in public, not that type of it-girl that wants to be the middle of the world everytime. I like woman with at least a bit of intelligence, thats interested in life, how it works and that is able to follow a conversation thats not only about TV-Shows, Instagram or Sweets. It would be nice if my partner would also want to have an active sexual live. that means i want to have a bit sexytime when i am able to remember the last time and of course if i am no longer able to remember than theres only one way to getting rid of this problem. Humor is also a verry important thing. I don´t want to laugh alone.
It would be nice if my partner has at least a couple of these simple things, that i think that are not really hard to achieve. I do not need a smart science professor at my side, nor an professional sexworker thats ready at a call. I also don´t need a comedian or a professional speaker. I just want a person i can speak to, thats able to understand what i am saying and able to response me. That has her own oppinion but is also able to discuss things without getting angry cause noone respects her oppinion. I am a direct person, so if you don´t want to hear that something looks terrible, don´t ask me, i will tell you the truth.
I just want that my free time is filled with fun and joy. So i want my partner waiting in bed for me, doing things that arouse me, wearing sexy things at home. A Partner to laugh with, to watch series, shows, anime and gaming news. A partner that is able to ask intelligent questions like… why is everybody making so much panic before the winter and the electricity thing in germany? I had this discussion last night with my wife… her solution was that “They should tell us two or three days before they cut the electricity” to the topic why our electricity network here in germany could be unstable this winter. I don´t want to keep up with this topic but it´s again such a dumb thing. Cause of mass use of electric heaters (cheaper than ges heaters) the electricity grids in germany could break down in some cities. How should anybody be able to forecast this?
Back to the topic… I would really be happy to have a gamer girl by my side that is also addicted to games and nerd things, but at least the partner should be able to live with me. I can accept that not everyday could be the best day in my life and that not everything is fine in the world but whats a world without laughing, without fun and happyness. I want a partnership in that i want to come home cause i am happy to come home, where i can expect to find something special. What i actually can expect that my wife is not at home or sitting on the couch browsing TikTok, Instagram or any other social network. Maybe shes shopping online and comlaining about not mobile optimized shops. She even doesnt greet me when i come home, is not interested in me, my day or anything, only in what i should do for her…
But isn´t this too much? What do i bring to a relationship?
Of course i want a couple of things in a relationship, happyness, a bit of fun, a healthy sex life, a sense of humor so that i am able to laugh with my partner, also a good conversation should be possible. I don´t need a sexy model, i don´t need a 90/60/90 girl or anything else. I have no problem with thicker girls nore tiny small woman als long as it looks esthetic and not abnormal. And sorry i don´t like these trend with huuughe butts or thighs or those insta-style wannabe models that all looks the same.
But what do a woman get?
I am a guy, to heavy, ok i admit i need to lower my weight a lot, but it´s hard when you are not able to move outside for example cause your partner don´t want, isn´t in the mood, doesn´t want to drive anywhere, don´t want to make anything or is blocking your movement. Oh i know the topic of my next post…
I work a lot, i am a full shift worker, so i do early shifts, late shifts and night shifts. I work on 7 days a week for me there is no sunday or such things, we need to work 24/7 in our firm, so i won´t be at home some nights and some sundays. It´s not easy to live with a full shift worker but therefore i earn a good salary. With a good planning we wouldn´t get any financial problems in the future, if my partner is also working we will have a really good live but even if not it would be enough for two.
I am also this kind of guy that does most of things himself. I already build a 7 meter long indirect lamp, i layed floor, build things that we need on my own, when they are not sold anywhere, i can do most of handywork and i also like plants. I am able to ask questions and tell if i am not able to do anything or don´t know how to do anything.
I am a honest guy that hates lies and i am really easy to satisfy. Just give me food or let me cook, give me hugs, arouse me, laugh with me, talk dirty to me, watch tv with me and sometimes surprise me and you will get a guy doing nearly everything for you. I am complaining so much about my wife but i try to make her happy at all. Of course thats not really a thing i think i can do anytime cause she will never get enough but i try to, only cause we are married… sounds really dumb when i write it down…
I am a friend of all animals, only female cats are a problem, im allergic, dogs, cats, fishes, snakes, reptiles, bunnies, guinea pigs or anything else is no problem for me… ok hughe spiders just do not need to be in my home, i love them, love watching spiders built their nets at work and i am fascinated everytime how exact this piece of work is but i don´t need hughe spiders in my bedroom or such things. Even children use to love me. I am not looking verry happy, ok i am not of course, but i also look a bit angry, dark and sometimes i might look a bit dangerous or like a homeless when i haven´t shaved my beard for a couple of days, but every child smiles at me and gets happy when they see me… don´t know why…
So Women out there, what do you need more? A man with technical and handy skills, that would do anything for you, is honest, earns enough money for a proper live, will surprise you, love you and will also be verry easy to handle. What i want is simple, i want a funny woman, a woman that has a natural sex drive and is able to do it more than 3 times a year, thats able to arouse me, talk with me without loosing the string in the first 6 words and when it comes to the look, omg please feel free as you are, as long as you don´t look completely terible IN MY EYES it doesn´t matter how you look. I once made the mistake, about 20 years ago, to send a girl away cause i thaught she was not pretty enough for me, but she was a warm hearted and good person, she still is, and maybe we could have been a good couple but in this 20 years we lived two different lives, that are no longer compatible in any way.
Now you may know a bit more about those little things i want in my life. I write much about it cause i am a bit afraid you could get me wrong, cause of my bad english skills, but i think it´s not too much i desire isn´t it? Is it too hard to find a person that at least can fullfill two or three of these 5 needs (Humor, sexy, intelligence, good style, same interests)???
am i really wishing too much?
